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3 Easy Steps to Better Sex

Being Sexually Unfulfilled

Let’s start this off with a show of hands. How many of you have had sex without orgasming? Without being pleasured, fulfilled, or having cummed?

Yeah, I feel you.

Unfortunately, we’ve all been there but this is a 100% curable phenomena. Are you ready for the solution?

Here it is. All you have to do to fix it is Stop, Talk, and Listen.

I am the kind of person that will stop my partner, mid-sex, to tell them exactly what I like or don’t like. If I’m not feeling it at all and am not getting anything out of it, I will even up and leave you behind in the bedroom. That’s just the way I am. I’m a snob when it comes to sex, point blank. I demand your best because I will give you my best.  It’s as simple as that for me.

So here it is, the 3 easy steps to better sex.

1. Stop: Don’t be afraid to pause in the heat of the moment. Just because you’re in the middle of bumping uglies does not mean that it is too late to change things up.

2. Talk: Tell your partner(s) what you do or do not like. For example;

“Hey, I’m not really liking that position. Can we switch to this one instead?”

or

“Hey, you almost had me at my climax but then you changed stroke too quickly. Try to keep a constant rhythm.”

And finally, last but not least.

3. Listen: This is THE most vital step. You need to listen to your partner. You expect your partner to listen to your requests and suggestions so you need to respect your partner(s) as well and listen to theirs.

It is as simple as that. Oftentimes we get too caught up in the hype of sex and forget what sex is supposed to be all about. It’s supposed to be, light-hearted, sexy, crazy, wild, chaste, demur, conservative, liberal, brilliant, and awe-inspiring. It is supposed to be whatever rocks your socks off and then some so do not be afraid to stop the process in order to make it better, communicate with your partner(s), and most importantly listen to your partner(s).

Try this out and let me know how it goes for you.

Be Safe & Peace ; D

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