Posts tagged “sexuality

Being Unfulfilled in the Bedroom Pt. 2


So, this is a follow up video to last week’s episode. Being Sexually Unfulfilled.

Check it out here!

And then check out the last post about it here.

So, this topic was so big that I just had to keep going with it and do a follow up video for it and it also may have inspired a new series for the blog. Hmm…. What do you guys think about a weekly feature on all of the horrible, terrible, no good, very bad experiences I’ve had in the dating game. Not to dwell on the negative, but I have some pretty funny stories to tell. I don’t know, I think I may do it. Stay tuned to find out!

Be safe and Peace ; D


Let’s Talk About Anal Sex


Let me just start this post off by saying that I am not a fan of Anal Sex. I have tried it every which way and it still is not my cup of tea. However, I’m young and I have a very bright and hopeful sexual future so it might turn out that my preference will change. You never know.

With that said, I want each and everyone of you to try it out. I know you’re giving me the squeamish side, but really just try it. You know the saying “Don’t knock it ’till you try it.” That most definitely applies here because you really never know. It just may be that you fall in love with anal sex. It may turn out that you’re like me and it’s not your¬†preference. Either way, when it comes to sex and your sexuality I am a firm believer in try anything once (within reason y’all ūüėČ

Anyway, imma keep this post short and sweet so you can go check out my video on the subject. You get three different perspectives from three people with very different sexual backgrounds.

Hope you enjoy, and as always keep an open mind!

Peace ; D

Women Masturbate Too!

Women masturbate. On a Bed. In the Shower. In the Car. In our dreams. With Friends. We do masturbate.

Still with me? Okay. I just had to get that point across as flagrantly as possible. Are you squeamish yet? Good, because this post is about to become a whole lot more blunt.

I’m sick and tired of this stigma against female masturbation. Even more than that, it kills me that this subject is so taboo. Yes, little boys masturbating is considered a ‘taboo’ topic, but take a moment to consider all of the PSA’s that went into the creation of the stereotype of little boys¬†disappearing¬†off to the shower for a little ‘personal time.’

“Oh don’t mind Billy. Boys will be boys after all.”

In our society[the U.S.] there is a socialized norm towards boys masturbating, but that same norm does not get extended to their female counter parts. I used to wonder why that was but then I had to stop myself and give myself a reality check. Duh Kalhu, we live in a¬†patriarchal¬†society. Men can socially get away with more than women can. Now before I lose any of you, I am not some raging femme bitch who wants death to all men. No, I am just a girl living in a male-dominated world and having to suffer the consequences. We have progressed a lot in terms of women’s rights. Hell, I’m a 21-year old college student with no marital prospects, that right there is proof enough. But what we have¬†achieved¬†in overt success also has a dirty secret that lurks in the subtle beliefs and paradigms of our culture; indirect sexism. It’s still alive and kicking, and it is rearing it’s ugly head especially in the conversation on female masturbation.

Let’s talk about masturbation. Girls will be girls after all. We experience sexual pleasure as well. We do have sensory nerves down there. A lot of them actually and we do get the urge to engage those same nerves. And you know what? It feels damn good! We can experience happy alone time too. ¬†I personally partake in Kalhu’s special happy time quite often, (this is code speak for I masturbate, everyday). I don’t say this to be vulgar but I want to break through the barriers of this stigma and start the conversation on women masturbating.

So if you’re interested in starting up the conversation with me, check out my video on this topic.

Let me know what y’all think. The good, the bad, and the ugly.

Peace ; D


Let’s Talk About Sex Baby!

So, I started a vlog to talk about everything from my style to photography and druuuuuuum roll please; SEX! Every Friday I’m going to release an episode on my Youtube Channel talking about the non-traditional sides of sexuality, sex, and other such goodies. Are you excited, cause I’m excited!!! Sooo excited. But just wanted to update and also let you know that 30 Days of Breakfast has not been abandoned. I just lost the where abouts of all the pictures for them on my computer and am swimming through thousands of photos to find them.
Peace and Love!